Hi there! I’m Fadhilah, a seeker, writer, voracious reader, and a DJ – but we’ll talk more about that in a moment.

First, let’s talk about why this website will be useful for you.

Like you, I’m constantly in a jihad to become a better Muslimah and trying to equip myself with all the knowledge I need to be a better person. I write about the struggle that we all face to become better servants of Allah, better students of life, and better people — and how we can achieve that by constantly being mindful of what we do and consume, literally and metaphorically.

Here’s a small sampling of the articles you’ll find here:

  • Tips on how to learn better
  • Ideas for improving your quality of life
  • Beneficial reminders on the deen and mindfulness…

All of these and more delivered to you through a mix of my own experiments, scientific research, reflections, and easy–to–understand writing :)

Every week, I deliver a personally-crafted letter to over 800 subscribers, directly to their inbox. Each letter includes private reflections not available elsewhere, links to articles I’ve written around the Internet, and a whole lot of love :)

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"I have enjoyed every single letter you have sent to me. I think you should just keep writing like you do, because I love how you combine Islamic concepts and make everyday activities practical."

− Sister Abimbola, Canada

"I would like to let you know that I appreciate every single letters that you wrote to me. Sometimes, those letters arrived exactly at the time when I need it. It's as though Allah is reminding me and making me feel better through your letters. Keep on writing!"

− Sister Zareen, UK

"I love how your letters brings me through an emotional roller coaster ride. Some of them are very relatable, others are reminders that are like a slap across the face (haha), and some are purely motivational and spiritually reviving. Alhamdulillah, keep it up love!"

− Sister Nadiah, Singapore

Want more?

Check out all the articles I’ve written, listen to my (recorded) live radio show Tracklist for the Dean’s List which is all about becoming better students, and don’t forget to subscribe to my letters if you’ve yet to do so!

I don’t know everything, but I try to share everything I know, insyaallah :)

My latest articles

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Quick Guide to Masjid Customs

| Soul | No Comments

I remember the first few times I reentered the masjid after years of avoiding it. I was literally lost in all sense of the word – from finding the way…

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How to Enjoy your Dining Experience at the Restaurant of Life

| Inspire & Motivate | One Comment

Welcome and thank you for dining at our restaurant — the Restaurant of Life. Every man, from the first to the last, have gone and will go through these doors…

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How to avoid the mistake of harmful sharing

| Media Studies, Mind | 8 Comments

I used to share every single interesting thing I come across on social media. Any content that made me laugh, caused tears to stream down my face, or even those…

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What do you choose to see?

| Mind | 6 Comments

Since enrolling into the university’s news team, I noticed a peculiar thing happening to me. It started innocently enough; an action born out of necessity even. As I walked through…

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